The Parsi wedding was better than what I imagined it would be like. I expected a lot of Parsis doing a lot of Parsi stuff speaking Parsi language and that I would be sticking out like a sore thumb in it all.
I was pleasantly surprised with the decor and more surprised with the guest list. The male of the Parsi species were in their sparkling white coats and black round hats, pot bellies sticking out proudly. The female of the species were more colourful with no two women wearing similar dresses.
The ceremony was Hindu like with a white sheet between bride and groom and the two "priests" (rabbi?) chanting something. The arrival of the bride onto the wedding platform was greeted with somebody hollering "Here comes the bride!"
The ceremony was over in a jiffy and the music began with the DJ announcing that the bar was open!! While the men made a bee line for the bar, umpteen varieties of snacks made the rounds. There was tiny mutton samosas, pakodas made of cheese and kheema, sev-aloo puri, tiny biscuits baked with cheese, fish stuffed cutlets, potatos mashed with cheese,...
The first round of dinner started at seven. I had good company with Kalidas from Pune and Roma from Bermuda. Kali competed me with Smirnoff - we had five rounds before he quit. He had to. After his wife Devyani came.
Devyani kept me company thereafter along with Roma.
Dinner was a feast. There was butter chicken (huge chunk of chicken), steamed pomfret rolled in banana leaf with green masala (superb), mutton biryani, dhansak, a pickle made from brinjal (my favourite), .... and then pudding and ice cream.
The DJ closed shop at ten sharp. No music after that.

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