Worry

  • Life, they said, is a journey and not the destination.
  • And on this journey of life are several vantage points.
  • That sometimes change our destination or our destiny.
  • You begin your journey of life towards one destination.
  • And find that spot of happiness that alters your destination.
  • And you move towards that new destination.
  • Until you are interrupted by that new option.
  • To find love of a spot of happiness that you never knew existed before.
  • And you move towards that new destination.
  • Until 35 years later, you find you were never in search of this new destination.
  • Which is much more than you bargained for.
  • And you discover that this is the heaven that you never aimed for.
  • Such is life!
  • And you worried all along the journey where life would take you!
  • So why worrry where life would take you 10 years hence?
  • Life, as we know it, knows all the answers.

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